While the Educator and child were feeding the poddy calves one afternoon, a seasonal worker approached and offered to give the child a new cap, inviting them to “come grab it from my donger.”
The child had seen and chatted with this particular worker several times over the last few weeks and had even seen their dad sharing a knock-off drink with him after work. The child had become familiar and relaxed enough that they immediately started to follow the worker towards the staff quarters, assuming it was safe.
The Educator acted quickly, stepping in with calm, clear words: “Oops - just a reminder that the children aren’t allowed in the staff quarters, and they can’t be supervised by anyone other than me or a pre-approved family member. You’re welcome to bring the cap out here if you like, though!”
Although the child hadn’t been in immediate danger, the situation raised concerns about over-familiarisation, blurred boundaries, and the very real risk of children becoming too trusting in environments where many adults come and go.
Later that day, the Educator built a gentle safety activity into the learning session. They introduced a “Trusted Tree” activity, inviting the children to help create a big poster covered in branches. On each branch, they glued printed photos of people on the approved visitor list, helping the children recognise who was safe to go with, and who they needed to check with an adult about.
They followed this with a short video about “tricky people”, not scary strangers, but people who might seem friendly and familiar while doing the wrong thing. They talked about how even nice people sometimes ask us to do unsafe things, and that no matter what someone offers, a cap, a lolly, a game - the rule is always the same: “I don’t go anywhere unless my trusted grown-up says it’s okay.”
At the end of the day, the Educator spoke to the family and asked if the seasonal staff could please be reminded of the service’s child safety rules, especially around entering staff areas and interacting with children one-on-one. The Educator also completed a Near Miss Incident Report to document the event and the action taken.